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a grief ritual for our corner

A grief ritual for the loss of a beloved tree or place.

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February 23, 2024
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what worked for me in 2022

a very random list of things that worked for me in 2022

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January 20, 2023
featured, live seasonally, summer

grounding season

grounding season so we can fully fall back into the invitations of fall and winter

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September 9, 2022
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  • Wendell for Wednesday

    Wendell for Wednesday

    October 26, 2011 /

    A little of Wendell’s fiction for today, from possibly my favorite novel of all time Jayber Crow, Just as a good man would not coerce the love of his wife,…

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  • Wendell for Wednesday

    Wendell for Wednesday

    October 26, 2011 /

    Questionnaire 1. How much poison are you willing to eat for the success of the free market and global trade? Please name your preferred poisons. 2. For the sake of…

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    sxtwo
  • home gardening,  tomatoes

    green tomatoes

    October 20, 2011 /

    We cleaned up the garden a few weeks ago. We chopped down all of the vegetable plants to the ground, so that their roots would decompose over the winter and…

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  • Wendell for Wednesday

    Wendell for Wednesday

    October 19, 2011 /

    Eating with the fullest pleasure — pleasure, that is, that does not depend on ignorance — is perhaps the profoundest enactment of our connection with the world. In this pleasure…

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  • home gardening

    pinterest

    October 17, 2011 /

    Have you found Pinterest yet? My advice? Don’t. It’s ridiculously addicting, and I spendwaste entirely too much time on there. It gets my creative juices flowing, but I seem to…

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  • recommended

    WalMart & Michael Pollan: A Recap

    October 16, 2011 /

    I recently finished Fair Food (review coming soon), and it has changed my thinking a bit on the “food movement.” While I still think local answers are the best solutions…

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  • food,  soups,  vegetarian

    cuban black beans and rice

    October 14, 2011 /

    I love summer eating and “cooking.” At our house, summer cooking is really more assembling than cooking. There are so many great ingredients right outside our back door (or arriving…

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  • food

    Action Alert: Label Our Food

    October 13, 2011 /

    October is non-GMO month. Take two minutes, and tell the FDA to label whether or not food has genetically modified ingredients. Whether or not you feel comfortable eating genetically modified…

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  • Wendell for Wednesday

    Wendell for Wednesday

    October 12, 2011 /

    “By now the [exploitive] revolution has deprived the mass of consumers of any independent access to the staples of life: clothing, shelter, food, even water. Air remains the only necessity…

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  • community

    worm composting workshop

    October 12, 2011 /

    For all of you interested in worm composting, there’s a (free!) workshop in Indy this weekend! While you’re there looking, check out all of the great things Fall Creek Gardens…

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“We were never perfect. Yet, the journey we mak “We were never perfect.

Yet, the journey we make together is perfect on this earth who was
once a star and made the same mistakes as humans.

We might make them again, she said.

Crucial to finding the way is this: there is no beginning or end.

You must make your own map.”

Joy Harjo

#joyharjo #wildwisdomforwednesday #makeyourownmap #poetry #amaptothenextworld #wildwisdomforwednesdayonthursday🤦🏻‍♀️
The baby years were next level exhausting, but I’d take the sleeplessness and unknowns of the baby days over the near constant feeling that you’re doing it wrong, the sheer helplessness of knowing you have to let them figure it out but also somehow when it’s time for you to step in, the loneliness that comes with bigger kid problems because it isn’t right to blab about their struggles like you could vent about sleep training or toddler tantrums. 

And yet.

Our kids are growing into the most interesting people I know, and I pretty much want to hang out with them all the time (well, maybe like 75 percent of the time 😜). I assume your kids are the coolest too. If us parents can’t think and say so, who can?! 

There’s certainly not enough support for parents of newborns, but it feels like there’s barely any for those of us in the weeds with bigger kids navigating the big, weighty questions, endlessly apologizing for screwing it up, and figuring it out as we go along. 

I’m not looking for any affirmation here because I know y’all are kind enough to offer them; I just wanted to write down some of what I’m feeling in this weird, beautiful and brutal season of parenting we find ourselves in.

#biggerkidseason #parenting
This is 42: dropping off one kid at soccer practic This is 42: dropping off one kid at soccer practice while @gsterley coaches the other one’s basketball practice…so Wendell and I get to go sit in the back and listen to the evening bird song while the sun sets. 42 is GLORIOUS so far! 😜

Wrote some words today about what I’ve been learning lately in my newsletter - subscribe at the link in my profile!

#spring #whatimlearninglately #birdsong #sunsetritual #maythefourthbewithyou
“Remembering place is significant, and that incl “Remembering place is significant, and that includes each visitor to a place, insect, plant, animal, or the passing shadow of a cloud in golden sunlight.” -Linda Hogan

#lindahogan #wildwisdomforwednesday #knowyourplaceloveyourplace #morethanhumanworld
Beltane blessings! 🌱 It’s been raining and co Beltane blessings! 🌱 It’s been raining and cold for days and doesn’t feel much like Beltane, but we have three bluebird nests full of eggs promising that official planting season is near!

#liveseasonally #spring #beltane #mayday #crossquarterday #bluebirds #spring
“Here is a lesson: what happens to people and wh “Here is a lesson: what happens to people and what happens to the land is the same thing.” Linda Hogan

#lindahogan #wildwisdomforwednesday #wearenature #itsallconnected #knowyourplaceloveyourplace #healthelandhealourselves
Last spring, we lost our long fight against the de Last spring, we lost our long fight against the developer that, this spring, cut down hundreds of old, old trees to make way for too many houses in too small of a space in the midst of a flood plain. 

We grieve to the depth at which we love, so it’s been a rough several weeks at our place, surrounded by so much destruction. I have zero cohesive thoughts, but I did make a list of things I’ve been contemplating:

• It’s our responsibility - and honor! - to bear witness to loss, whether seemingly big or small. The loss of these old forests was big to us and to so many birds, animals, insects, and plants; how pretentious of us to go about our days acting as if only our losses matter. 
• Grieving fully grows our capacity for empathy. In this way, grief is a door to growth and healing.
• The more we learn about the natural world, the more complex we find it. Perhaps we should pay attention and get curious instead of wantonly destroying Her.
• I’m complicit in this destruction by the way I live, spend, and invest - and that too is my responsibility.
• On the day of the worst of the destruction, I’ve never heard so much birdsong in the nearly seven years of living and listening out here as I did that day. It seemed as if the birds lost their homes and found temporary sanctuary here before mostly going off to find somewhere new to call home.
• I often say “know your place to love your place,” but what does it mean when your place has become one surrounded by so much destruction? This is a question that we’ll all be wrestling with as the climate disaster comes closer to our doors and our beloved places.
• I’ve been thankful for the ways in which the people that care for us have been kind and gentle with us, acknowledging and not downplaying this loss. I want to be more like them when I grow up.
• I cried like a baby at the gym today when this song came on, and then laughed at myself because I didn’t realize it was a love song instead of a song about her love for her place. But then I realized that it didn’t really matter since it spoke something true for me - “this land that you pass over is my heart, is my daily bread.” Music and art are beautiful in that way ❤️
“As for me, I have a choice between honoring tha “As for me, I have a choice between honoring that dark life I've seen so many years moving in the junipers, or of walking away and going on with my own human busyness. There is always that choice for humans.” Linda Hogan

#lindahogan #wildwisdomforwednesday #roadlesstraveled #thenarrowway #swimmingupstream
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